There are a number of reasons not to have children, whether that is infertility, the gift of singleness, or the inability to find a good spouse. But Time Magazine apparently believes it has found another reason: because not having kids lets you focus on yourself and not be drug down by the burden of kids. Peter Heck exploded their recent cover story on âHaving It All Without Having Kidsâ by exposing the hostility and resentment it bore towards those who have taken the Biblical command to be fruitful and increase seriously. The article is full of hypocrisy as it attacks the entire concept family for being too pushy â couples who have kids expecting other couples to want to have kids tooâ¦all while it touts couples who donât have kids expecting other couples to not want to have kids too. In the end, this amounts to another popular assault on anything rooted in traditional morality (in this case, the importance of family) and particularly Biblical morality. Celebrating selfishness is not a positive or âliberatingâ step for our culture. Itâs a deadly one.